"There was a time a long, long time ago Chevys and levees played on the radio No cellphones, just 20,000 lights Swaying on a Saturday night, alright Can you imagine that slice of time? Rock and roll was young, people stood in line To hear music that played into their lives That you could carry 'till the day you die" -- "Slice" by Five for Fighting   These lyrics are just one example of how music has evolved since the ’80s and ’90s. Back then, music’s messages were as salutary as oxygen itself. Now, the ways songs are displayed and spread have evolved, and their sounds have shifted. Instead of physical copies of the classics, there’s now iTunes and loads of overplayed songs on mainstream radio stations. Rock’n’Roll radio, once a staple of the local airwaves, is very much consigned to spinning oldies and trying to reach people online or via paid subscriptions. Pop and hip-hop dominate the dial. “The fact is that the general public might be pretty blind to any other form of music,” says Christina Daher, 16, of Snowden International High School. Daher listens to heavy metal and rock, and feels that her favorite bands should have a chance in the audio limelight. “The messages they give us are beautiful,” says Daher. “They put their feelings and emotions into these songs.” With a few exceptions, punk rock, post-hardcore, and other alternative genres are largely silent on local non-Internet radio, except for some college stations. Today, some teens say, it’s all about an artist’s looks, who’s the next big thing, and just selling out. “Radio has no standards or values. The best they do is censorship,” says Ronnica Rogers, 17, of the John D. O’Bryant School of Math & Science. “If the radio were less biased towards genres of rock, they’d see that rock, too, is catchy, meaningful, and beautiful.”

“Excuse me beautiful, can I talk to you for a minute?” “Hey girl!” “You got a boyfriend?” All a girl wants to do is get to her destination without being harassed, young women say. But nowadays, they say, they can’t even go to the corner store without being heckled. The taunting takes place in many neighborhoods, teens say, and can grow more belligerent in areas near liquor stores. “Being approached by a guy on the streets can really be a turnoff and I consider it to be creepy,” says La`Neece Byrd, a senior at Boston Community Leadership Academy. “I much rather be left alone.” Byrd says that when she ignores the hooting, some men become more verbally aggressive. Some guys have progressed to touching. Shayla Carranza, 16, from BCLA, says she was walking one day when she felt someone grab her elbow while trying to hit on her. “I felt so uncomfortable,” she says. “I told the dude, ‘Can you not?’ I had to raise my voice because I felt so creeped out.” Ivana Guity, 16, from Boston Arts Academy, says that she doesn’t respond to the come-ons. “I don’t say anything back,” she says, “because if I do I would…make guys believe I’m easy.” Instead, she says, she puts on her headphones and keeps walking. “I just want to go where I’m headed,” she says.

Fifteen-year-old Marinela Seiti believes that everyone has a dark side. “Sometimes, the nicest people are the meanest,” says Seiti, who goes to Boston Community Leadership Academy. “There comes a day where they explode.” Seiti knows there is a give-and-take to this dynamic. “I am nice to the people who are nice to me, and I am mean to the ones who are mean to me,” she says. “If someone bullies me, I bully back.” Psychologists say that good people can become evil at their most vulnerable times, when friends and family and tight controls may not be around to keep their bad behaviors in line. Wendy Zheng, 17, believes in the overall good in people. “Some people go through depression, family issues, stress, and can act a bit mean at times,” says Zheng, who goes to the John D. O’Bryant School of Math & Science. Angie Miranda, 17, however, feels that even so-called sweet people have their bad traits. She says she was surprised how mean a friend had become. She was in a bad mood and wouldn’t talk, wouldn’t answer questions. “In order to find out their dark side,” says Miranda, from the O’Bryant, “you have to find their weakest point.”

Fourteen-year-old Matty Jobarteh, from Hyde Park, thinks someone’s appearance makes an impression but personality keeps it going. “If someone looks pretty, people are going to make them memorable but if the person is arrogant and irritating, it doesn’t make any sense,” says Jobarteh. Even though we all want to look good and are attracted to physical beauty, many teens say that personality is the more important asset. Someone with great features may turn heads in a crowded room, but, teens say, it’s those whose personalities draw us to them who will win our deep affection and esteem. Lansana Fofana, 15, from Dorchester, thinks physical appearance is a very shallow thing. “For example, someone can get into a terrible accident and destroy their looks and also people grow old – their good looks start to vanish,” says Fofana. “What is left? Personality.” Bintou Conte, 16, from Mattapan, believes that looks do matter at some point because if you’re going to marry somebody, appearance counts. On the other hand, she says: “Those who have the best personalities are the winners in life.”

Kianah Moss, 14, from the John D. O’Bryant School of Math & Science, often sees dispatches about perfect relationships on her Instagram feed. “I believe that those kinds of posts are real,” says Moss. “When I am in a relationship I want something like that to happen to me. However, I do not expect it to happen.” Some teens feel that social media pressures them to live up to a certain storybook standardin their relationships. A few of the popular sites that feed the images are Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, and Facebook. Kharliyah Ortiz, 14, from the O’Bryant, has Twitter, Tumblr, and Instagram apps on her mobile phone. “I go on social media every day,” she says. Ortiz figures that about 25 percent of the time she is on Twitter she sees tweets about perfect relationships. Still, she says she’s never felt the need to meet somebody else’s expectations. “I don’t want a boyfriend that does what a picture on social media does or says,” says Ortiz. “I just want a relationship that will have both mates be able to work with what we have and not live up to what the Internet says.” A popular picture trending on Twitter showed a text message a boy had sent to his girlfriend containing a Victoria’s Secret bag outside her door. Meryl Bantefa, 14, said she does not want to live such a fantasy life. “I don’t want a relationship where my boyfriend has to buy clothing for me before we go out on a date,” says Bentefa, who attends the O’Bryant. “I do not expect anything like that to happen to me because it isn’t real.