Alcohol is one of many things people use to “escape’’ their problems or reality. Some people drink too much and begin to act differently than how they normally do.
According to Google, consuming too much alcohol shuts parts of the brain down, causes insomnia, hallucinations, seizures, vomiting and impaired vision. Sometimes, drinking alcohol causes the consumer to be aggressive and say things they don’t mean. In order to be considered under the influence in Massachusetts, the maximum blood alcohol level is .08%.
However, it doesn’t always get to the point where the consumer acts aggressive or violent. There are many different variations of drinking alcohol. For example, some people drink casually while others may binge drink so that they can get drunk quicker.
According Talbott Recovery, an addiction recovery clinic, their website states that more than 15 million people struggle with an alcohol disorder in the United States, but less than 8 percent of those people receive treatment. For an individual family, alcohol can cause a separation between parents which can take a toll on the children. It’s heartbreaking for a child to see their parents unhappy with each other. According to the American Addiction Centers, as many as 26.8 million American children have been exposed to alcoholism or alcoholic behaviors in their family.
Alcoholism can also negatively affect a teenager’s self esteem, their bond with their parents and their performance in school. Self esteem affects the way teens think, act and feel on a daily basis. If they have things going on at home, it can cause their self esteem to be lowered. If one of their parents is going through an alcohol addiction or recovering from one, it can be difficult for that teenager and parent to once again form a bond.
Teens already face a lot of challenges in school: low grades, drama, trouble with boys or girls. For many, our homes are a sanctuary, so having to go home and mentally prepare yourself for another challenge can be a huge distraction. It can be extremely difficult to focus when you have to constantly think about how the people raising you are consistently consuming alcohol right before your eyes.
In my opinion, no one in any family—especially families with children— should drink because it can cause a disconnection between parents and children. Teenagers have to carry the image of their parent drinking around with them all day. And maybe they’ll even start drinking alcohol so they can “escape’’ their problems as well.
Drinking alcohol is not going to help anyone solve their problems or escape from them. That’s why you just have to face them with assertiveness, instead of trying to run away. Running away from them isn’t going to improve anything, and the problem is just going to continue to negatively affect you and be something that you constantly think about.