Heartbreak is hard to deal with, but do you know how to get over it quickly? Well I know, so keep reading to find out.
Step 1: Don’t date a different person to get over your ex.
You're just playing with their heart. You have to be okay with yourself before going out with other people—I mean, think about it, it if you’re not okay with yourself, how are you going to let someone else in?
Instead, take your time and enjoy being single. If you’re not enjoying your free time, you’re not going to know how to be independent, so take your time. HAVE FUN, STAY BUSY.
Listen—if you’re in bed all day thinking about that person, what is that going to accomplish? Go out and have fun with your friends by having a sleepover or a girls/boys night out.
Step 2: When you’re ready to look for someone new, trust your instincts.
You know when your mom tells you this person is not good for you and it ends up being true? Well, that’s because she has great instincts. Listen to her, but don’t let other people get into your head! This annoys me so much because your love life is your business, not theirs. Plus, what if your friend ends up liking the same person and she tells you that he did this and that, and it’s not true? Then you and your boyfriend might end up breaking up.
Step 3: Make your next relationship better than the last one.
When you find a new boy/girlfriend, make sure you don’t let them do things you don’t want to. If your boy or girl makes you feel like you have to do something to stay with him or her, that is a red flag!
Finally, make sure you always talk things out. If you have a problem, it’s good to talk it out instead of hiding it. If you want to argue with your girl or boy because you feel some type of way, then argue. Arguing can be good. It takes things out of your mind and puts them out in the open. Communication is key in a good relationship!